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    When trust is broken.

    When trust is broken within a relationship, it can lead to a large variety of issues. I like to compare it to going downhill with the possibility of your brakes going out while your steering wheel falls off. This particular topic has rung true in my circle lately and Inwish to share these thoughts. While that sounds extreme, broken trust is. It requires steps in order to truly fix it and repair it, rather than just attempt to slap a band-aid on it. Trust can be lost through lies, rage, violence, drug and alcohol abuse, and, most prominently, sexual infidelity. Once it’s lost, there is usually a Humpty Dumpty effect:…

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    It’s One Thing To Know …

    The following was written by one of my prior students of Amour Partagé and it hit on such excellent points that I wanted to share it. “It’s one thing to know that you like being spanked or tied up, but how do you know that you’re a submissive? How do you know that you want to live D/s as a lifestyle? How has your background shaped your perceptions of what D/s is, and your perception of yourself as a submissive? Like many students new to AP, my previous experience was confined exclusively to playing with BDSM in the bedroom. I’d been interested in D/s as a lifestyle for the better…

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    My Core

    I am a Dominant. I am sometimes a Master and even a Daddy. I embrace, understand, cherish, appreciate, love and respect that dominance. It is me. It is in me, around me and part of me. It forms me and completes who I am as a person. However, my dominance is nothing without her submission. Her desire to have me. To have my control, love, guidance, protection, care, trust, respect and dominance. It is hers willingly. I need her submission willingly. Wanting. Needing. Desiring. It is not a shared moment. It is a shared life. It is a shared understanding. A shared love. It is something that builds and feeds…

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    More Than Just A Role

    Submission is more than just playing a role. It is deeper than exploring sexual fulfillment or simply following direction of another. For those who know they are truly submissive they are aware that it is part of who they are and It is part of what defines them as a person. A true submissive craves and desires, and more importantly needs, the aspects that flow with submitting to the right dominant which gives them the missing pieces to their life. Some true submissives know they are what they are but fight against it to a degree due to routines built by life circumstances or bad relationships in past. It takes…

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    Craving

    I have a craving. A wild desire, a want, a hunger….a craving. I crave to touch the most delicate parts of you, to feel the warmth against you. I crave to taste your skin, your lips, your sex. I crave to please you, to bring you to a new level inside of you. I crave to dominate you in a way that you feel safe, protected, yielded and loved. I crave your orgasm, pulsing around me, vibrating through to my core. I crave to experience that moment of total surrender as I pour my passion into you. I crave to smell you, breath you in, to have your presence intoxicate…

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    What do you do when the person you love becomes your worst enemy?

    It’s extremely painful when the person you love, your best friend or partner becomes your worst enemy. It’s that very real moment when you feel like your world is devastated. The feeling of betrayal can become great as you try so hard to understand how this person that you were so close to could drift so far away. Often times there are hurtful recriminations that you struggle to understand – and some of the responsibility may be on your end as well. Losing this person can be overwhelming and life changing because this is your person, your confidante, your bestie, your life. There are important steps you can take to…

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    Instant Happiness?

    Recently I had a few people reach out and ask “how can I gain some instant happiness in my life” my first thought was “go shopping or get laid!” but honestly there are many discussions which suggest shopping can actually work as a form of therapy. Of course, the big question is, what can I do now that will make me happier, and doesn’t have nasty side effects, such as credit card debt? Thanks to the pioneering work of “positive psychologists,” and social scientists, we now have some pretty reliable answers to that question. Recent studies show that some actions, such as communicating with loved ones, performing simple acts of…

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    You

    For so long I hoped For so long I dreamed Finding you was all I would need Taking all the lonely pain Casting out the sad remains Of what I was before I found your love My heart is all I have for you To place inside your hands To gently take this gift from you A trade thats no demand A light you shine inside of me Revealing what remains A life of broken promises A life of pointless gain For now I have my purpose I found the missing part It was you all this time That lived within my heart The single thing I wanted The craving…

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    The Biggest Obstacle…..You.

    There is one aspect that seems to ring true in almost any training which forces you to focus on yourself…..the obstacle of, you. You are your biggest hurdle usually and I have seen this be the case with almost everyone I have trained over the years. So how do you get around this? You change your approach. Approach is everything and by simply making yourself view and do things a little different then your usual can make all the difference. Try putting yourself into a different mindset altogether and take advantage of the moment to actually change the parts of yourself that can hold you back from learning or exploring…

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    Mine

    My submissive is mine……her trust and respect I earn but she is mine. My own, my right, my focus…..mine. Her desires become mine, her flower becomes mine. Her wishes and goals become mine for her. My submissive. She is not to be insulted, torn down, objectified, harmed, disrespected….she is mine. My extension, my friend, my love…mine. Her wetness is mine, her longing is mine, her orgasm is mine…..mine as is a treasure, a gift, an honour, something to be cherished, protected, beloved. My submissive has me, my control, my love, my protection, my guidance, my correction, my erection, my trust, my pain, myself. My submissive is just that….mine.